u know what...i guess i want make things clear and just u know just spill the beans..hahaha not exactly mean that i want to tell every dirty little secret or anything but just in general..haha right..haha..whats important in life?
now u have to look into the biggest picture...let ur mind be free and just think...what's important right now in ur life? is it friends? relationship? freedom of life? studies? music?tv?games? u name it..hahah but to me..as we look into the big picture..yes u begin to think...its our future is important..now future..what it means? to get a good job? to marry someone that u can depend for the rest of ur life...to build a family and live happily ever after?...i think this is the big picture..and we think back to our brothers parents...what have they done...did they overcome their years in teenage and abdolescent and achieve their dreamt future?...yes in fact they did...i dont care ur rich or poor..that has nothing to do with u...is a happy family thats what matters..
well if u dont understand what i just wrote...needless to say...our future is important..and to get what we want in future...is to have a good job and build a family with a wife/husband to stay with u for the rest of ur life right? okay...now as we teenagers..we have many things that we think it is important...but what is important right now is not the right path to lead to a future which i wrote above....and its not related at all...music..freedom of life..puppy loves..tv games..other than that...we are all neglecting that studies come first..and we all get distracted by all this temptations that we cannot escape...sometimes a hobby is just making us all get addicted to it and not really concentrating on what is important which is our studies...now tell me...does studies help in our future? of course it does because why if u have good results u can get agood job in the future...
talking about relationship at this age...is it really important? well i can go long about this..but to be shorten in words...its just really simple...there's no need to have a relationship right now....example those ppl i see everyday in facebook or blogs telling..oh my god i love u so much..i want to be with u for the rest of my life...i cant live with u....without u im nothing..shit like this..oh my god..like i say when u look into the big picture...why?why u need a relationship at this age...the sake of getting famous? the sake of showing off? or this is common..to be loved?...hahah come on...u are love by ur friends....and u dont need a lover..tell me..in our society today...which one of us even reached a relationship that lasted 5 years?...the only thing i know is that i got a friendship with this guy for almost 11 years...so yeah..u want a relationship that u wont get bored of it...and u wont leave other person for someone or something...or u leave because its not right or whatever...u want a relationship which is everlasting and just be with that someone till death to us part...so yeah...and those 3 to 5 months relationship is not love...is just puppy shit..sorry its puppy love..hahah typo..anyway...haih..whats the point having it now? there's always chances in university or college if u cant stand it..right?...and ur thinking how to find haih the love of my life just left me...well thats just negative of u..hahah when u look into the BIG PICTURE there's tons of juicy boobies and gorgeous babes waiting for u in university..hahaha
well..to be said the truth...nothing else really matters but studies....music? not important..as a way to release stress yes good...games(including sports)..not important...but for as health yeah very important and also to release those stress..haih..spm is coming...especially trials if u want that result to go overseas like me...yeah u need those results...well i still think that there's still time for me to study and work hard for good results...with the exception of being lazy..hahah yeah...i'm being lazy nowadays..and i should seriously be determine and stop using my phone..my laptop and entertainment such as ps3 and tv...gotta cut down..haha if i want to distress yes music and piano since im doing my grade 5 piano exam..haha
well i got a lot of things that i want to say..but suddenly my mind just came to a close...oh yeah...to those who is having a relationships and wanting to go for a relationships or even those who had been in a relationship and got dump..well please please stop and just think..is this the man/woman that i choose to be with for THE REST OF MY LIFE...well most probably is not..because its not a easy decision...that question will be answered when ur seriously mature enough to think that answer...and ur life is steady yeah...now our life is not stable...why? we are still studying..bare in mind ur a student...not a grown up adult who is ready to take life into another level..u dont have income for ur girlfriend or whatsoever...ur just wasting money on ur girlfriend from ur parents...is it better if u can save those money and use it for ur college or stuff like that?....well thats number 1...number 2 is...dont start a relationship...why...if u do..u waste time..and as i wrote u will waste money...and when problems started to come..ull suffer...and all of this will just affect ur studies..and this is not good..because why?...as i wrote just now...study is what is important right now...number 3...if ur dumped..or want to dump somebody...think properly...this will affect both...u know why?...because after a broken relationship...personality changes and everything it just changes sometimes for the worst and sometimes there a good one..because u tend to use it as a lesson..but most of the people that i know is all bad..haha so yeah...dont...if u start one..think properly..am i gonna be with her long?...is she the girl that i can depend on?...will he/she love me through good or bad times?...eventhough it sucks till u cant tolerate anymore...
well look at the big picture...haih..life..its like a line...ur a baby...a kindergarden kid...primary school...secondary school brother...college young man..university graduate...a man..jobman..and then a husband...a father...a a retired man..a grandfather..and it ends..yeah...this is the big picture...and when u think...from start to finish..we as humans we learn..and we need our studies to achieve this line's needs...and with puppy shits i mean puppy love and freedom of life or whatever aint gonna help but to bring more suffer to u...if u cant even understand or loved urself..how are u to understand or to love somebody?...if u cant even handle ur studies...why u have to add relationship to make ur problem worse?...well it all has to be u looking at the big picture and think..just take a moment and realise..what is right and what is wrong..because sometimes we do have to prioritize things in our life to bring balance to the life's line...hahaha light up the darkness and think about it..
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